PartingWayswithMyLover
SayingGoodbyetoLove
Theendofarelationshipcanbeoneofthemostdifficultexperiencestoendure.It’snoteasytoletgoofsomeoneyouoncecareddeeplyabout,butsometimesit'swhat'snecessaryforbothpartiestomoveforward.WhenmypartnerandIdecidedtobreakup,itfeltliketheworldcameapart.Everythingwehadbuilttogetherwassuddenlygone,andwewereforcedtogoourseparateways.
TheStagesofGrief
Aftermybreakup,Ifoundmyselfgoingthroughthestagesofgrief.Atfirst,Iwasindenialandcouldn’tacceptthattherelationshipwasover.Thencametheanger,Iblamedmyex-partnerforeverythingthatwentwronginourrelationship.Bargainingfollowed,IstartedtowonderwhatIcouldhavedonedifferentlytokeepourrelationshipintact.Depressionwasalsopresent,Icouldn'teatorsleepandIlostinterestinthethingsthatoncebroughtmejoy.Finally,acceptancesetin,andIrealizedthattherelationshipwasn'thealthyforeitherofusandweneedtomoveon.
HealingandClosure
Ittakestimetohealfromabrokenheart,buteventually,Ibegantofeellikemyselfagain.Ipickedupnewhobbiesandreconnectedwithmyoldfriends.Takingtimeformyselfhelpedmefindclosure.Iwasabletomovepasttherelationshipandunderstandthatsometimesthingsdon'talwaysworkout,butthat’sokay.It'stoughtosaygoodbyetosomeoneyoulove,butit'simportanttodowhat'sbestforyourselfintheend.
Inconclusion,breakingupwithmyloverwasn'teasy,butittaughtmevaluablelessons.Ilearnedtoallowmyselftofeelalltheemotionsandstagesofgriefbeforemovingon.Andmostimportantly,Ilearnedthatclosurecanonlycomefromwithinandit'suptometotakecareofmyselfduringthehealingjourney.
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